Showing posts with label Vents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Vents. Show all posts

Friday, November 26, 2010

A Thank You note

I'm the type of person who is easily moved. I cried at the Hummel wedding in Glee, I get attached to fictional characters, I get sad beyond reasons about subjects that don't come up in normal dinner conversation. It wouldn't be wrong to say that I do blow some things out of porportion [#kanyeshrug].. And to my chagrin, I have the annoying knack of wearing my heart on my sleeve.

I don't know why I'm so upset, I think if anything though, I'm more really angry. In short, a teacher at my high school was recently arrested for "sexual harrassment". It makes sense that word has been passed around to my high school alumni, but having students misconstrue the facts (or in this case, lack thereof) is another thing. I'm relating back to one of my theories that I've come up with on how some people are so despicable.. (mostly derrived from my experience in the restaurant industry/people to people encounters).

It sounds extremely naive, but sometimes it's hard to wrap my head around the fact that not everyone has a good heart. Not everyone thinks before they say something, do something, or type it up on Facebook for the whole world to see. Not everyone has common courtesy, some people have no courtesy at all. Not everyone remembers that you are human being, and not what your job description says you are.

Anyways, what happened was that someone on Facebook had deemed this teacher a "rapist" when I'm sure everyone has seen the article and it didn't say anything about raping or even disclosing the sex of the victim. Being honest, I didn't look too much into what that person said, except for slightly shaking my head in disapproval because how is this funny mislabelling someone a rapist.. And this is someone who was part of our educational community. Teachers really put themselves out there.

However, my girlfriend DID say something about it. She commented on said person's status, wrote an entire paragraph explaining how it's sad to see people laughing at the expense of someone else's misery. And how falsely accusing someone of being a rapist just further discredits their reputation, which is exactly what all this publicity has done. This teacher has not only lost their job, but their reputation has been shot to pieces. An individual commented on what my girlfriend had said, as a counter argument. Ugh.. between you and I, I fucking hate this guy. He's disgusting and legit makes me want to punch him in the face. He said something along the lines of "He already ruined his reputation by doing what he did. Just because you love [teacher's name] doesn't make what you said right. If you can't accept that then you are SAD. Yada yada yada.. I have nothing substantial to say because I'm a flaming moron." I'm not being bias (maybe a tad).. he is a fucking moron.. and also a bigot for that matter. And guess what his profile picture is on Facebook? A blurry, pixilated, cropped headshot of the accused teacher. I'm going to go ahead and say that he's too hideous to put his real picture on Facebook anyway..

As my endnote, I've been kind of off lately with everything that's been going on in my life. I've been spending a lot of time with my family, pushing out a lot of my friends. I've been contemplating whether or not I've changed drastically from the person I was only a year ago, or if I'm just freaking myself out. AS MY ENDNOTE, I'd like to say I'm glad that assholes and jerkoffs exist in this universe, otherwise I'd lose sight of what kind of person I aim not to be. And as these individuals exude some of the characteristics that I hate the most in humanity, they remind me of my values and my morals. I'd like to thank them for never losing sight of the small small world they live in..

here's a toast for the douchebags. *kisses*

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

girls girls girls

it honestly blows my mind of what girls are capable of. when guys rag on how girls are demons, i never hesitate to defend my feminine counterparts. believe me. i'm all against female oppression, i even wrote a speech on female genital mutilation and how it's sole purpose is to please men.

there's a reason why some girls just don't have many girlfriends... it's because they aren't good girlfriends. they don't follow girl protocol and they don't back up other girls. when your friend's boyfriend calls you and asks you what you honestly think of the girl he's dating, you're so supposed to have her back. i would never purposely make my girlfriend look bad, especially if it's a guy who's asking. when you start choosing guys over your girlfriends, that's when you fall into the same category as those who force the practice of genital mutilation.

if anyone has been keeping tabs on the Hills, i love kristin cavallari. i don't really care that she's dating justin bobby and it's breaking audrina's heart, because really, kristin gave her the chance to tell her straight up how she felt. but audrina pussied out and didn't even find the common courtesy to tell kristin that she wouldn't have lunch with her. kristin even stated that yes, when considering her friends, she follows the (unwritten) girl code.

well now it makes sense as to you why you just don't have very many girlfriends. i don't care what people say, the relationship between two girls is NOT the same as between a guy and girl. girls have that instinct, have that intuition, that guys just don't understand. we live on a backbone of basic principles and beliefs. it sounds ridiculous, but i don't deny it. every girl knows you're not supposed to wear the same halloween costume as last year...

i love my girlfriends. i'm incredibly lucky to have these people in my life, and i can say that i'm so glad that you're not of them. i'm so choked that i actually trusted you and saw you as someone i could confide in. but honestly, you're just one of those girls who will do anything to get a guy's attention and that's probably why you think what you're doing now is justified. you obviously don't respect our friendship or me.

and on behalf on someone who is supposed to be YOUR good friend, FUCK YOU. how dare you take private information between the two of you and pass it on to some guy you had a crush who decided to let everyone know about it? this sounds so highschool but it really REALLY pisses me off how you just ran your mouth like that. have you not any morals? do you just not take any of your friendships seriously and you'd rather fill an awkward silence with someone? get your priorities straight. what kind fo friend are you?

i'm telling you now that you're not a Mean Girl and that i hate you. but you need to get your priorities and you can gtfo of my life.

thanks for shitting on our friendship. TTYN.